Uncollected Cremated Remains - Ashes
What happens to uncollected Cremated Remains
- Ashes?
Crematoria
prefer individual funeral directors to collect the Ashes of cremations they
have organised in the absence of the authority of a family member. Due to the
volume of cremations that take place, storing, tracking and the necessary
administration would be prohibitive and costs of cremations would rise even
further.
Individual
funeral directors will have policies in place that will be made aware to you -
sometimes there are fees involved after prescribed intervals. Some funeral
directors will write to you occasionally with a reminder. Practically, this
procedure is time-consuming and can escalate unreasonably.
In 2013, the
NAFD, National Association of Funeral Directors, which is one of the main organisations
that monitor and influence the funeral profession along with the National
Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors, SAIF, were in consultation
with the government and a cross party group as indicated below - their
conclusion follows:
“At present there is no legislation
relating to the collection or disposal of cremated remains. The Cross Party
Group on Funerals and Bereavement suggested that when new legislation is made
it should include a provision which would make it a requirement that bereaved
families should collect ashes from a funeral director’s premises within a set
timescale unless they have provided a written request to do otherwise. The
Cross Party Groups suggested that a maximum time limit of 5 years may be an
appropriate timescale. If ashes are not collected within 5 years, then the
ashes may be returned to the cremation authority for disposal. Any ashes
currently being retained in funeral directors’ premises for a period of over 5
years, and where there has been no contact from the client who contracted for
the funeral for over 5 years and where that client cannot be located or fails
to respond to correspondence, shall be dispersed in a suitable location at the
discretion of the funeral director.”
As a practising
funeral director, we monitor quite closely Cremated Remains still in our
possession. We write occasionally to families, mostly without any response and
state that a fee will be charged for further storage though, none have to date.
We are not bound by the suggestion above and are within our rights to return
the Cremated Remains to the crematorium responsible for the cremation and, with
an endorsement of contents, Certificate of Cremation and indemnification
against the crematorium, ‘we’ are well within our mandate for this return. The
cremated remains will then be scattered in the Garden of Remembrance, unmarked,a procedure that should incur no further financial charges as this was, an
inclusive element of the cremation charge.
Naturally, every
effort is or will be made to contact the person responsible for arranging the
funeral prior to this action and possibly, a notice in a local newspaper would
be appropriate but, with no mechanism to reimburse costs incurred, the funeral
director is not bound to pursue any action beyond ‘due diligence.’
Multiple
‘returns’ could be performed at once.
NB. We, Shoobridge Funeral Services
understand only too well that the logical collection and disposal of Ashes is
anything but, logical. With emotions and bereavement comes confusion and memory
disturbance. That we, as funeral directors, inform you of the processes regarding
Ashes and may supply you with written information, your ‘balance’ at this time
is unnaturally disturbed.
Sometimes you
are the executor and not the family member. Some people move away following a
death, possibly to be nearer family; remembering all that was said to you when
you were arranging the funeral did not remain in your memory.
Sometimes, the ‘informant
or executor dies, often without passing on necessary information? When moving
house or changing address, who would think to write to the funeral director and
inform them?
These problems
are experienced by funeral directors every day. That they themselves, funeral
directors, are not perfect should be a consideration. Life has taught me, to
try and think of the unexpected – what if vandals broke into an undertaker’s
premises and came across numerous urns of ashes; would they think they may
contain precious metals and scatter them all on the ground? Unusual and
unlikely but…..?
Please ensure
that any ashes you are responsible for are dealt with properly. The funeral
director has people suffering personal loss regularly. His expertise is
all-encompassing but very complex and far-reaching.
Helping families
in every way possible is his concern, Please assist with the solution.
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